Embracing the Journey

bravenewmatt
6 min readApr 22, 2023

Finding Peace, Happiness, and Success in the Nuanced Grey Between The Present and Future.

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The Personal Development Conundrum

The realm of personal development is filled with contrasting perspectives on achieving peace, happiness, and success. Two prominent schools of thought often conflict, leaving us uncertain about the optimal approach to self-improvement.

One viewpoint advocates striving towards an idealized version of ourselves, dedicating our lives to pursuing a grand vision for our future. This ambitious outlook can drive us to excel; however, it also has drawbacks. We may become so focused on our future selves that we lose sight of our present identity. In our quest for future happiness, we may overlook the present moment, neglecting that tomorrow is not guaranteed, and our investments might not pay off.

Conversely, another perspective argues that true peace and happiness lie in fully accepting our current selves, flaws and all. However, while this approach promotes self-love, it can lead to complacency. If we remain content with our present state and never challenge ourselves to grow, we will never realize our full potential or offer our best to the world.

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